Monday, May 4, 2015

Being Careful with Comfort

"Be very careful.....

To love the Lord your God,
 to walk in obedience to him,
 to keep his commands,
 to hold fast to him
 and to serve him
 with all your heart
 and with all your soul.

~Joshua 21:5

When you are settled into your new house,
 or marriage.

When life seems to be going well
 and you are not having to battle like before.....

Be very careful with comfort -
don't let your heart stray."

~Pastor Mark Jobe, New Life Church

I hope you enjoyed our Quote of the Week!

Friday, May 1, 2015

With a Heavy Heart

It is with a heavy heart that I share today's post with you. We just recently learned that my husband's cousins daughter suddenly passed away. She was only twenty and is is just so heartbreaking to hear of young people passing away in the prime of their life.

I cannot imagine the heartbreak their family is feeling now. She also had two sisters that she left behind. It is a great reminder to us all that tomorrow is never promised and we have to take hold of today. We need to share the gospel of Christ with our loved ones today because we never know when it will be too late.

There has been a special page set up for her as they make preparations for the funeral. The mother is unemployed and any amount would help them (no matter how small). So please, if you find it in your heart to give please do so here:

Thank you from the bottom of our hearts!

Tuesday, April 28, 2015

Wise Woman Linkup!

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Monday, April 27, 2015

Feminine Fun - Polka Dot Maxi Skirts!

Aren't you glad that it is spring? I am! And nothing feels more spring-like than polka dot skirt!

I saw these sweet polka maxi skirts the other day at and so glad to see them again because they are soooo cute! I honestly don't know which color I should order!

Or my favorite color this spring--the coral?

Or maybe one of each? Hmmmm....decisions, decisions...

Right now they are a whopping 55% off and only $16.99!

Tell me which one is your favorite!

You can find these for a limited time over at!

 But hurry, they go quick!

Saturday, April 25, 2015

A Beautiful Wedding: My Nephew Got Married!

It has been a busy last two weeks for us around here at the Fuentes home. One of the things that kept us busy was that my nephew got married. He is the first son to get married on my husband's sister side so it was really exciting to see them tie the knot!

I am really proud of my nephew, he  is a very godly young man and seeks to please the Lord in all that he does. He is such a blessing and it is an encouragement to see the younger generation following the Lord. He was so happy to be marrying the love of his life and I am so glad that he is starting a new chapter and I am praying the Lord blesses them immensely.

 Another nephew of mine carry a "Here come the Bride" sign as he walked down the aisle. I wish that we had taken our camera but we were in a rush to get out the door and no one grabbed it. You know how that can be in a big family that is trying to get somewhere one time! So these are mostly pictures from our phones!

This was the beautiful wedding cake, we were seated pretty much right in front of it and the bridal party. I am a big fan of flowers on cakes. I love roses, peonies, and every other type of flower you can think of.

If you look closely above you will see that the spotlight under the cake stand was a heart shape. After they cut the cake and had the dance you could see it more clearly especially if you look at the top picture in this post.

This was their wedding favor that was put on all the tables for us to take home. They chose a chocolate Hersey's bar wrapped with a picture from their engagement photo shoot.  Below you can see what was written on the back--what a great and simple idea!

"I am my Beloved's and my Beloved is Mine"--Song of Soloman 6:3

Isn't that sweet? Yes, these are definitely the ingredients to a successful marriage! Love, Respect, Honesty, Trust, Loyalty, Faith--all 100%.  I'll take these types of servings any day!

Since I don't usually share many pictures of me on the blog, I thought I would share a few this time around. Here I am above with my oldest son Stephen and Bella (I think she was a little anxious with all the people there).

Here is one of Steve and I. My daughter curled my hair that day so that I would look different, I usually don't wear it down either I usually always have it up in a Lilla Rose clip! I don't really like having hair in my face, can anyone relate?

(Psst--by the way, they are having a special sale for Mother's day that I promise to share at the end of this post. )

These are all my older children sitting at the table waiting for the fun to begin! My husband had the baby so she is not in this one.

Here I am with Joshua and the twins, Josiah, and Christian (yes, I know, they don't look anything alike--but I promise they really are twins!).

The night was tons of fun with lots dancing and catching up with old friends and family. My nephew took his new bride to Hawaii for their honeymoon and we were so glad to share in a small part of it all!

I hope you enjoyed looking at some of pictures!

Oh yes, and I did promise to share the Lilla Rose Mother's Day sale I mentioned above. It has been going on the last two days but since I have been on the go and have not been able to share it at all and glad things are slowing down so I get a chance to! Lilla Rose released two NEW styles and a new style to their already awesome hairbands! See all the goodness below:

And the new clips that were released early! Aren't they gorgeous?

It is called Grace:

This sweet sale is 10% on May's Flexi, new headbands and Elegant flower Flexi! Also save 20% on select items! Plus if you buy three or more I will send you a coupon for a forth free ($16 value for new customers only--limit one per household). Just make you purchase and contact me at and I will send out your coupon!

You can visit the Lilla Rose HERE, but remember it ends tonight at midnight!

Have a blessed day!

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Friday, April 24, 2015

10 Ways to Become a More Thrifty & Wise Homemaker!

I remember growing up in elementary school and taking a home economics class. I remember walking into that class and being so excited about the new projects we were working on every week and how different the class was from the others. I remember my teacher was sweet, soft spoken and patient and seemed to actually like teaching us. The classroom was a one that was filled with happiness because the school books and pencils were banished and we were finally able to do something creative with our hands.

We did many projects in that class from  learning how to boil water to sewing letter pillows in the shape of letters to spell our names. It was a good experience and one that helped empower me to try new things out as I became an adult. My classmates and I really looked forward to this class and when the semester was over we were sad to see it go.

Now as an adult I look back and think of how I use many of the skills I learned in that class on a daily basis--however, there is one thing  that I wish that they would have taught more of ---how to be thrifty and handle money well.


The average homemaker will have thousands of dollars to deal with on an annual basis that will go through her hands. She will need to be wise and make good financial decisions on how she spends that money for her family and how they will eat, be clothed, for the home, education, transportation, recretion, and more.

She has the monumental responsibility of try to make a dollar stretch--two times, three times more than the average person because of all the demands on her budget and sometimes it might feel like it is humanly  impossible. Sometimes she feels like she is always straining to make ends meet by helping to stretch her husband's income or maybe by helping out with some extra side income that she brings in.

But there are many ways to learn to become more thrifty and to relieve the tension on your budget. So today we are sharing ten ways to become a more thrifty homemaker.


1. Pray and search the Scriptures--Always ask God for wisdom and He will help you. This should be the first thing that you do with any problem or situation because He is Lord of all and knows your needs. Then after you do that take time to learn what the Bible teaches about money and start to understand the basic principals of what you need to know in handling it.

2. Assess your situation- and zero in on the problem to figure out where you need the most help in your homemaking and attack it. Learn all that you can in that area and become equipped to better handle it financially.

3. Read Dave Ramsey- He has helped many people all around the world who are in debt and has showed them a game plan of how to get it out and to stay out for good. He is popular for his title, The Total Money Makeover.

4. Learn to cook from scratch.  Not only is it more economical but it is also more healthier for you. You can find some great cookbooks here for just 30 cents a piece.

5. Learn how to shop more frugally for groceries. Have you heard of Grocery University? It is an audio course that teaches you how to save money using coupons but there is much more included that will help you with your shopping.

6. Save money by keeping your family healthy by learning how to meal plan and have a healthy family (check out The Healthy Home and Happy Mom, Healthy Family, Meal Planning, & Cookbook.)

7. Spend less time out shopping. I find the more we are out "window shopping" or out and about the likelihood of us spending more increases. Find other things to do with your family that will benefit them. We have currently begun exercising more as a family and have joined our local YMCA.

8. Make a list and stick with the list. If you go out shopping it is wise to have a list to keep you focused. It is so easy to be tempted in the store to buy things that you don't need there and to start adding things to the cart you wouldn't have otherwise. Make make sure to eat before going grocery shopping or you might end up buying more out of hunger.

9. Be determined to stay on budget and learn to save and put money aside- You can make a budget but if you don't follow it it will be a flop. Learn to be determined to sticking to what you can afford and be sure to put some aside for a rainy day.

10. Know the difference between needs and wants. This one is so important and can help you as you navigate wisely as a homemaker especially if you have children. Children can sidetrack us since they sometimes seem to want to buy every toy or new gadget under the sun, but we need to be firm in our resolve and know when to say no.

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Wednesday, April 22, 2015

Fabulous Facebook Party Giveaways!

Welcome to our Facebook party! In case you missed it on our Facebook page we will have our prizes listed here all week long. But first we want to tell you why we started this party, we want to celebrate homemaking with the release of the Ultimate Homemaking Bundle!

If you haven't heard about it, it is on sale this week only for a limited time through Monday. It is an amazing and valuable resource for all homemakers. It contains:

It is valued at over $1000, But now available for $29.97! It also includes FREE bonuses that you wont want to miss!

You can learn more about the bundle

 HERE or just


 Now onto our giveaway prizes!

Prize 1: Fruitful Vine Creations

Fruitful Vine Creations is giving away a $50 gift certificate to their store.They have so much lovely goodness at their store to decorate every room of your home. You won't want to miss this one! Be sure to stop by and check out their website!

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Prize 2: Young Living Essential Oils

The Encouraging Home is giving away $97 worth of essential oils for yourself and your home! She also has a special offer for Wise Woman Readers that you won't want to miss:

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Prize 3: Lilla Rose Mystery Prize 

We love Lilla Rose flexiclips, headbands, and upins! We are giving a Lilla Rose mystery prize of our own choosing to one special reader! They are having a special surprise tomorrow so be sure to check out our site!

You can enter here:

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Prize 4: Mary and Martha Caddy

Mary & Martha from Marci at The Thankful Homemaker is giving away a beautiful and practical kitchen caddy that would add elegance to any table!

You can enter below:

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Prize 5: Joyful Aprons and Homemaking DVD 

Joyful Aprons is giving away this super cute apron along with free "Homemaking 101" and "Homemaking 201" DVD's!

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Prize 6: Kids Of Character Curriculum

Character Concepts  is giving away their Kids of Character curriculum package that can be studied by children of all ages. They will study 45 crucial character qualities, gleaning insights from Scripture as well as practical projects for implementing them in everyday life, and inspiration from real people from history who have left examples to follow!

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Prize 7: Wise Woman Consulting

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Prize 8: Girl and Her Goats Soap and Bath Tea

Girl and Her Goats is giving away a blueberries and cream scented soap bar and chamomile and lavender bath tea! These are quality handmade skincare products that are without harmful ingredients. You can visit the website and even find goats milk lotion (my favorite) here!

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Prize 9: 'Everyday Is A Gift' Journal and Audio Workshop on CD

Remembrance Press is giving away this beautiful "Every Day is a Gift" journal and audio workshop. Whether you're a parent, grandparent, educator, scrapbooker or family historian you will be delighted with this journaling approach the preserving your life stories now and for future generations.

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Prize 10: Old House Mercantile Wooden Art Sign

Old House Mercantile is giving away this beautiful "We Love Because He First Loved Us" 1 John 4:19 hand painted wooden subway art sign. Old House Mercantile are a talented, professional group of artisans who create everything from primitive, folk art, cottage, and whimsical handmade items, with an old fashioned flair!

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Prize 11: Kindle Fire HD

 This is a Kindle Fire HD 7. You can find this at Amazon!
  • Beautiful 7" HD display with over a million pixels (216 ppi / 1280 x 800)
  • Enjoy more than 33 million movies, TV shows, songs, books, Android apps and games
  • Available in five brilliant color choices
  • Fast quad-core processor up to 1.5 GHz for quick app launches and fluid graphics
  • Rear-facing HD camera and front-facing VGA camera
  • Create personal profiles, link two Amazon accounts to share books, apps and games, and set device usage limits for kids
  • 8 GB or 16 GB storage, with free, unlimited cloud storage for all Amazon content and photos taken with your Fire devices
  • Stay connected with fast web browsing, and email and calendar support including Gmail and Outlook

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Thank you for entering our Facebook Party giveaways!

Don't forget to get your Ultimate Homemaking Bundle
 while you can!

Grab it here

 before it's gone!

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